So this week has been tough. Lots of drama from lots of sources including most prominently myself. I think when it comes down to it seeing that 289 scared me. It made me feel like 3 years of effort was all for not, and that’s a scary thought. Everyone likes to think that their life has value and that they aren’t wasting time on a fool’s errand. For it to seemingly all go away was almost more than I could process.
It still scares me but I’ve made some progress-
Well, I went to my gym today. Met with the dietician and it was actually pretty helpful. We have some good plans that I’ve already implemented and we will see how it goes. Then I met with my trainer who has stood by me for 2 years through it all. I’m not going to lie there were tears and frustration and then smiles. The good news is I weighed using the fancy scale at the gym and it said 277. Still a gain but only 4 lbs. That I can live with without a panic attack!
Now I’m moving forward and going to do all I can to be successful. If the meds make me gain despite all I can do than so be it. My journey will still have meaning even if I get back to 313. If that happens I can start again and keep trying.
Facing that fear of regression is actually a huge victory. I’m sure anyone out there that has lost has had to face a similar fear.
Thanks in advance for all your support as I get ready for this race and achieve greater health in my body. I know it will be a rocky road ahead but I am determined to push forward, and try again.
I still wonder what it is that God is trying to teach me and why does this have to be so hard? I’m not ashamed to say I don’t know the answer but someday I will. He knows and He is guiding me each day.
I thought of my favorite author today. The book, aside from scripture, that I read when I feel sad or hopeless- A Gift from the Sea by Anne Marrow Lindbergh. I just love it.
Here are some quotes from it that I love and felt strongly today.
Don’t wish me happiness – I don’t expect to be happy it’s gotten beyond that, somehow. Wish me courage and strength and a sense of humor – I will need them all.
“I would like to achieve a state of inner spiritual grace from which I could function and give as I was meant to in the eye of God.”
The sea does not reward those who are too anxious, too greedy, or too impatient. To dig for treasures shows not only impatience and greed, but lack of faith. Patience, patience, patience, is what the sea teaches. Patience and faith.
For happiness one needs security, but joy can spring like a flower even from the cliffs of despair.
I do not believe that sheer suffering teaches. If suffering alone taught, all the world would be wise, since everyone suffers. To suffering must be added mourning, understanding, patience, love, openness and the willingness to remain vulnerable.
I feel we are all islands – in a common sea.
Anyway, hope you all have a great Memorial Day. Hugs from your smilingldsgirl.
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Melissa Cook Swingle- I like the bit about the willingness to still be vulnerable. So true. Keep on keeping on my dear. 🙂